Have you ever wondered why certain things keep going wrong in your life? Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try, success, peace, and joy seem just out of reach? Sometimes, the issue is not just with circumstances but with the people we allow into our inner circle. The wrong people can block God’s blessings, hinder our growth, and lead us away from His divine purpose. When the wrong people leave your life, wrong things stop happening.
The Bible offers us valuable wisdom for identifying the types of people who could be dangerous to our spiritual well-being. This study is a wake-up call, urging you to exercise discernment in recognizing these individuals before they derail your destiny.
1. Anyone Who Feeds Your Rebellion to Authority
Rebellion is no small matter in the eyes of God. The Bible equates rebellion with witchcraft (1 Samuel 15:23). When someone encourages you to challenge godly authority, they are not only feeding your pride but also leading you into spiritual danger. We see countless examples of rebellion leading to destruction throughout Scripture. One such example is King Saul, who lost his kingship because of his disobedience. Be wary of those who stoke the flames of defiance in your heart.
In the words of Dr. Mike Murdock, “Rebellion is proof that you are not willing to be instructed.” Those who continually lead you into rebellion are essentially pulling you away from the order God has set for your life.
2. Anyone Who Dishonors the Divine Focus for Your Life
There are people in your life who will not understand the calling God has placed on you, and that’s okay. However, when someone actively dishonors or mocks your divine purpose, it’s time to reassess their role in your life. Think of Joseph, whose brothers hated him because of his dreams (Genesis 37:5). They despised his vision, but Joseph remained faithful to God, and in time, his dream was fulfilled.
Gary Chapman, in The 5 Love Languages, writes, “God has given you a purpose. Don’t allow the discouraging words of others to distract you from that mission.” Those who dishonor your purpose can distort your path. Stay focused and distance yourself from their influence.
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3. Anyone Who Is Disloyal
Disloyalty is a dangerous trait in any relationship. Betrayal can come from those closest to you, as seen in the story of Judas betraying Jesus with a kiss (Luke 22:48). Disloyalty often masquerades as friendship, but eventually, it reveals its true nature. Whether it’s a friend, coworker, or even family member, disloyalty can cripple your emotional and spiritual well-being.
Dag Heward-Mills, in Loyalty and Disloyalty, teaches that “Loyalty is the foundation of any lasting relationship, and without it, you are building on sand.” Disloyal people will desert you when you need them most.
4. Anyone Who Is Jealous of Your Position, Popularity, or Prosperity
Jealousy is a silent killer in relationships. Scripture warns us not to covet what others have (Exodus 20:17), but people driven by envy will undermine you, as Jezebel did to Naboth (1 Kings 21:2-3). These individuals may pretend to celebrate your successes, but deep down, they wish for your downfall.
If someone continually expresses jealousy over your achievements, possessions, or relationships, they are a dangerous influence. They may seek to diminish what God is doing in your life rather than support your blessings.
5. Anyone Who Justifies the Conduct of Your Enemies
Friends who defend those who oppose you are not true friends. Judas, for instance, conspired with Jesus’ enemies, even though he was part of the twelve (Luke 22:2-4). When someone begins to justify or rationalize the behavior of people who are clearly working against you, they are aligning themselves with your adversaries.
The Bible says in Psalm 41:9, “Yea, mine own familiar friend…hath lifted up his heel against me.” Be cautious of those who sympathize with your enemies, for they may not have your best interests at heart.
6. Anyone Who Feeds Your Doubts
Jesus reprimanded Peter for doubting when he began to sink while walking on water (Matthew 14:31). Doubt is a dangerous spiritual poison, and those who feed your fears instead of your faith are leading you away from God’s promises. Surround yourself with people who build your faith, not those who constantly sow seeds of fear and uncertainty.
Gary Chapman wisely advises in The Marriage You’ve Always Wanted, “What you feed grows. If you feed your doubts, they will overtake your faith. If you feed your faith, doubt will wither.”
7. Anyone Who Destroys Your Expectations
Finally, be mindful of people who continually tell you that your dreams and expectations are unrealistic or impossible. The Israelites who doubted God’s promise to enter the Promised Land brought back an evil report (Numbers 13:31-33). Their lack of faith led an entire generation to miss out on God’s blessing.
Jesus repeatedly rebuked His disciples for their “little faith” (Matthew 8:26). If someone is constantly discouraging you from believing in what God has promised, they are robbing you of your faith and hope.
In conclusion, understanding who to allow in your life is crucial to walking in your divine destiny. The wrong people can bring confusion, doubt, and destruction. Conversely, removing them from your inner circle can open doors to peace, blessings, and the favor of God. The Bible says in Proverbs 13:20, “He that walketh with wise men shall be wise, but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.” Choose wisely.
Faithful discernment is the key to unlocking your God-given potential. When the wrong people leave, the wrong things stop happening. Stay vigilant and trust God to surround you with those who will uplift, support, and encourage you on the path to your divine purpose.
By Faithful Scribe
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