…For those with faith and confidence in the wisdom of the Bible — the ‘maternal heart’ is very much a gift from above. Parenthood is a journey for all of us, but here is a handful of qualities that have proven trustworthy in my experience.
– Recognise the power of COMMUNITY. A famous African proverb says: “It takes a village to raise a child.” Parents who isolate themselves rage against all wise judgment (Proverbs 18:1). Healthy community is learned. It is the environment that teaches young hearts how to respect and value others and how to contribute in life. Hebrews 10:25 exhorts to not neglect to gather together, as is the habit of some. Society needs mothers who understand the critical importance of healthy community, in order that healthy relationships can be felt and experienced.
– The Bible teaches that the (healthy and wholesome) FEAR OF GOD is the BEGINNING OF WISDOM, therefore the woman who positions herself in and under His presence and Word is setting her family up for blessing. Godly truth will transform not only her own experience across the length of her days, but that also of her children.
– Recognise that one day your children will grow up and leave your household… but if you have given your best to them, they will never actually LEAVE you. Regardless of what may separate in the natural (distance or geography), your children’s hearts will always lean towards you and they will rise up and call you blessed (Proverbs 31).
– Recognise that (in Christ) we have the CAPACITY TO RAISE sons and daughters who can become people of influence in the land. Psalm 45 is full of promise to that end.
So… there is no end to the miracle of parenthood and in this case, motherhood. I have mentioned only a few thoughts but I pray they are of blessing. Legacy is no small thing…
So if you are a mum:
- Pray for wisdom as a parent.
- Pray for your children.
- Don’t ever be too embarrassed, stubborn or proud to apologise to your children if you have made a mistake at their expense.
- Believe the best and speak the best over them.
- Be their greatest fan.
- Be their cheerleader.
- Encourage always.
- Forgive easily.
- Example grace.
- Discipline with grace.
- Teach them with grace.
- Notice what others fail to notice and listen to God’s Spirit concerning them.
- Always remember that they belong to Him.
- Ultimately raise them to love the Lord YOUR God, with all THEIR heart, soul and strength.
You are amazing and you’ve got this. Be blessed