A Wild Cat wife is an untrained, unspiritual and disobedient woman. She is one of the most difficult personalities to live with. This kind of wife is the worst kind of uncontrollable creature a pastor would like to encounter. She lives for herself and seems not to have any boundaries of common sense, love, decency, restraint, caution or spirituality.
The Beast: Disobedience and Unspirituality
Although many women have the title “Reverend Minister” they are often not truly spiritual. Shouting in tongues is not what reveals your spirituality. Obedience to the Word of God is what reveals your love for God.
I remember speaking to one such unspiritual woman who carried the title of “Reverend”. I asked her to stop her evil behaviour. I pointed out to her that she was going against the Word of God. She shrugged and continued doing exactly what was against the Word of God.
Years later, when her life was destroyed, she tried to contact me to deliver her from the darkness she had created for herself. Unfortunately, I was not in a position to help her any more. Her husband had moved on!
The Dangers
- Loss of love: A Wild Cat is unable to receive her husband as a man of God. She sees him as someone to fight, someone to oppose and someone to resist. Obviously the man of God will find it difficult to love this “opposition party” and treat her as a delicate object.
- Violence and danger of imprisonment: A pastor who is married to a Wild Cat may be forced into violence himself. He may hit his Wild Cat in frustration or in self-defence. Such a pastor is also in danger of having a bad reputation for fighting with his wife and hitting her. The pastor may end up in prison for beating up his Wild Cat.
- Divorce: Often, the earlier years of marriage are filled with hope and the young husband has great faith that a change is possible. However, as the years go by, hope fades and the reality sinks in. The young man realises that there will never be a change. Actually, things are going to get worse! The possibility of divorce will loom bigger everyday.